To compete, or not to compete, that is the question

_{Grand Master Helio Gracie and his son Rickson Gracie.}

When Master Rickson Gracie competed for the first time as a child. His father, Grand Master Helio Gracie, offered him a challenge. He told Rickson that if he won the fight, he would also win a chocolate. But if he lost he would win two chocolates!

He left an important lesson to his son and student - winning the fight was not the only thing at stake nor the most important. Overcoming challenges and exposing himself to competition was indeed a big step for that child, and putting into practice the concepts learned in training such as the ability to respond to confrontation physically and mentally, emotional control, decisive attitude, not anticipating defeat , turning an unpleasant situation into something comfortable, etc.

So competing is part of the learning process and not an end. The Jiu Jitsu fighter competes to prepare, to become stronger technically and mentally. Therefore, the idea that we must be fully prepared before competing makes little sense whether you are a beginner white belt or a competing black belt.

Of course, we all want to win and have a good result. The feeling of winning the gold, getting on the podium and celebrating is great. However, competition is more important for you in your progress than for the team itself. Regardless of the result, you will come out stronger.

However, there is no obligation to compete, competition is not even part of the evaluation criteria for belt promotion. Many people don't like to compete for whatever reason. And everything is fine.

If you want to compete, regardless of your level, send me a message. If you don't like competition, don't worry, this will never be a problem for you on this beautiful Jiu Jitsu journey.